Attraction towards opposite gender is a natural part of our psyche. As a girl grows up, she naturally develops an attraction towards boys, and this attraction propels her to seek their company. So, how do you get a guy to like you?
Perhaps, this is a fascinating topic girls like to talk about the most. A girl always dreams to have the perfect man for her life.
However, the million dollar question is, how do you impress a guy or rather how can you make him go crazy over you?
14 Tricky Ways To Get The Guy To Like You.
I am sure; you are waiting with bated breath to hear the answer. Aren’t you? Well, there are tried and tested tricks to win the heart of a boy. Read further to learn more about it.
Be Confident: Boost Your Self-esteem.
1 “Confidence is the key.” It goes well in this scenario also. A guy likes a girl, who appears to be confident in whatever she does. However, it is easier said than done.
Most of people opine that confidence is all about projecting yourself in every possible way and being the center of attraction. If you make it obvious that you are seeking people’s attention, it is not going to get what you want.
Moreover, that is not what being confident is all about. You need to have a presence of mind, be witty and street-smart. And, that is what guys fall for most!
Be Who You Are.
2 You will find many sayings on how to be chatty and boisterous to draw a boy’s attention towards you. But, let me tell you, being extroverted does not make you any smarter or more attractive than others in any way.
The reality is, boys tend to avoid girls who are very talkative. Do not pretend to be what you are not. Just be the way you are. There is no need for you to put on a particular accent or change your body language. Anyone can make out when you are trying to do what you are not. If it is not natural, just leave it.
No man likes a woman who is not strong about her identity.
Play with Your Looks.
3 Some have the opinion that, looks do not matter! Well, you have to keep in mind that you are trying to impress a boy, okay. And men are fixated on the appearance of women.
I do not think, it needs any explanation, as to why people think so. However, you have to keep in mind that you have to be careful about your dressing sense and the way you carry yourself.
You should look attractive, beautiful but not voluptuous. If you want the boy to be in a long-term relationship with you, you have to maintain your dignity. Being a dignified girl is a key point for the guy to like you.
Skimpy clothes or heavy makeup will help you grab a lot of eyeballs, but when it comes to winning someone’s heart, such appearance is not going to help.
Come Out Of Your Shell.
4 Earlier in this article, I mentioned, that there is no need to be overly extroverted to impress someone. However, that by no means mean, that you should be shy and introverted.
If you want to get a guy to fall in love with you, you have to take the initiative to strike a conversation and make your presence felt. Boys tend to mingle with girls who are open-minded and who talk to them.
You have to break the ice and get comfortable talking to him.
Be Responsive to Humor.
5 They say laughter is the best medicine. Yes, if you want a boy to fall for you must make him laugh. You can crack jokes or talk about a goofy situation so that he cannot help burst out laughing.
It will bring him closer to you, and he will start missing you when you are not around. A healthy sense of humor is an indispensable part of any relationship. At the same, do keep in mind that you do not make yourself a butt of ridicule.
Make sure that he laughs with you, but not at you!
Do Not Hurt His Ego.
6 While dealing with men, you always have to keep in mind that your conduct should never make them feel belittled or hurt their ego. Even if he has some not so good habits, which you want him to quit, please do not traduce him.
On the other hand, do highlight his good qualities and tell him how good you feel about him. You have to be rather diplomatic in putting your views across.
Especially, in trying circumstances, do stand by him and make him realize that you will always be there for him.
Make Yourself Available.
7 Once, he has become acquainted worth you and is getting closer to you day by day, do let him realize that you are available. He should not be under the assumption that you are seeing someone.
If that is the case, he will not make any move to get up close and personal with you. That is pretty much not what you want, do you?
You can also go to the extent of saying that; you are looking out for someone special. It will make him feel special about himself, which in return will boost his confidence on you.
Share Common Interests.
8 It is a natural tendency for many men to like people who share the similar interests. Some guys are gadget freak; some are the sports enthusiast, while some are in music or politics.
Most women do not take an interest in these matters, however, if you show interest in these things, he will tend to talk more with you. Especially, in the case of sports or politics always do support the party or team that he does.
You need to understand that men are very passionate about these things and they view any jibe on the political party or basketball team he supports as an attack on themselves.
So, do not be supporting the opposing political party and expect the guy to like you, he never will!
Flirt A Bit.
9 Flirting is an essential part of a love affair in the initial days. If he reciprocates with you, when flirting, it means that he is most definitely interested in you. Flirting is not only about words, your eyes, but your tone also plays more important role in here. Keep checking his eyes also – it’ll tell you if the guy to like you or not.
Shower him with compliments while flirting, and show him how much you care about him.
Show Your Interest to Him.
10 Once you have already set the ball rolling, make him realize that you are interested in him. In this matter, your body language and language of eyes has to play the major part. Keep in mind; no one is perfect in this World, not even you.
If you want to get a guy to like you, start liking him first.
Unleash Secret Powers of Eye Contact.
11 Eyes are the door to anyone’s heart. Our leaps might lie but eyes simply cannot. Do not feel uncomfortable to look at his eyes. Maintain a steady eye contact and do not squint now and then.
Squinting eyes during a conversation piss men off. Eyes really can talk a lot more than words. Moreover, not looking into one’s eyes, shows that you are not confident or are trying to hide something.
Girls, please do look deeply into his eyes, if you want to leave a lasting impact on him.
Challenge Him And Let Him Win.
12 When you get to know each other pretty well, do challenge him in doing something.
Let’s say, you and he are on the treadmill, and you challenge him to compete with him. Make sure that he wins, but do not make it visible in any way.
It is something, that sure to work, and he is bound to develop an attachment to you.
Take Him Into Confidence.
13 You have to start trusting him, and he should understand that. You can share your most personal matters or family issues with him.
Tell him about challenges that you might be facing, and ask for his suggestion. In turn, he should start doing the same to you, and as a natural corollary, you two will come closer. It very important point for the guy to like you.
Love is not all about sugar coated words or romantic dilly-dallying. Trust and confidence in each other are the backbones of a healthy relationship.
14 Patience could be bitter. However, the dividends would be worthwhile. This holds good in case of romance as well.
As we discussed above, there are many things you to intentionally do to impress your prince charming but do not expect any of them to show an immediate effect.
You are on a journey of winning someone’s heart and making him crazy over you, right!
Here, you have to be patient, because you are looking forward to a serious long-term relationship and not a one-night stand.
Well, now I am sure you must have learned the tricks on how do you get a guy to like you, love you and care for you forever.
Reply with your view on the points or if you wish to add something more.